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Caden's Brotherly Advice

positrans:

support trans people who are unsure of what they want. who dont know how they want to transition or if they want to at all.
who dont know if they want to come out, don’t know of they want hormones, or surgery, what name they want

Anonymous asks:
I didn't use to feel dysphoria on my teenage years, maybe wanting my chest to be smaller and people not seeing it but it wasn't bad. When my family asked I told them it didn't bother me but recently it's getting really bad and I'm afraid they my family will say something along the lines "but you didn't feel that before" and that is made up. I have to tell them because its getting so bad that I really want to have top surgery (afab,20)

Hey anon! I had the exact same thing happen to me. That’s perfectly okay - everyone’s journey is unique to them and valid! You could explain to them that you’ve been taking time to think more thoroughly about it and you think top surgery is what would be best for you. Levels of dysphoria can change and hopefully they will understand that. Best of luck to you. I hope everything goes well. ❤❤

Caden

prokopetz:

The gender-neutral form of “ungentlemanly”/”unladylike” is “unseemly”.

There you go - now you can express your primly understated distaste for someone’s conduct without making any assumptions about their gender.

cute-suggestions:

glasseskitten:

hellagayhooligan:

THIS IS THE RAINBOW DOG
RELOG FOR 3 YEARS OF GOOD LUCK
IN ALL YOUR QUEER RELATIONSHIPS

@cute-

YES 3 YEARS LETS DO IT

nonbinarypastels:
“[Image: A light blue color block with white text that says “support gay trans men who love other trans men” ”

nonbinarypastels:

[Image: A light blue color block with white text that says “support gay trans men who love other trans men”]

autisticjedis:

autisticjedis:

reminder trans men aren’t just cute, they’re also handsome and hot as hell

you can rb this if you’re cis btw trans men deserve to know these Facts

Anonymous asks:
(photography anon here) Thanks for the advice, glad to know I'm not alone on the subject 😊 I'll definitely think about making up a business type name, that's a great idea!

No problem! I’m glad I was able to help. :-) Feel free to hit me up when you get your photography up online; I’d love to see it!

Caden 

Anonymous asks:
My problem is, most photographers use their full names for social media. But I don't want to use my birthname, and if I use my first initial I can't be sure that my new name will start with the same initial. I probably sound really superficial but this is a big deal for me and I don't know what to dooo :( any advice would be greatly appreciated! (2.)

That doesn’t sound superficial at all dude! I’ve dealt with similar problems as a digital artist. What I would suggest doing, as you don’t want to use your birth name but don’t know what your new name will be, would be making a “company name” to use on your photos. For example “© Mayflower Photography” or “© Boston West Photography”. You can use your favourite photography subject, a pet’s name, a favourite flower, your city name, etc., as long as another company hasn’t claimed the name. That way when you change your name the name on the photos will be the business name and then you can change your name on the website or social media associated with your business name.

Hope that helps! Let me know if you want more input. :-)

Anonymous asks:
Hey there my guy, I'm a closeted transmasc nb and I'm also an amateur art photographer. I want (and need, for my own confidence in my work lmaoo) to create an Instagram to showcase my work, but I'm having difficulty in trying to figure out a username. I plan on making a career out of photography so I want to choose a username and stick with it y'know? I plan on changing my name and I don't want to have to 'rebrand' once I'm out. (1.)

I’ll reply on part 2! I’d copy and paste but I’m on mobile right now.

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